when you decide to pay for a name change.... most do it due to a problem with someone abusing them and the name changer wants to be rid of that person. The problem is when changing your name it still notifies all your friends and anyone who keeps your calling card. Why??? It should be a private thing. Why is there not a button to check off if we want to notify our friends or not. That would solve things. I want a button to not have to notify our friends and calling cards.